How To Manifest Love
Manifesting anything can feel challenging, especially if you have a difficult time believing in your power. But with this simple guide, perhaps you can get a little confidence to give it a go and manifest the love you desire.
Discover the Blocks
First, it's important to learn what is blocking you, and what beliefs you have about love and yourself. Having a better understanding of what’s going on within is important. Journaling can help you discover the blocks you may have regarding love. But just paying attention to what you’re dominantly thinking and assuming regarding love can also give you a clear idea of what the fuck is going on. Write a list of beliefs you have about love, about yourself in relationships, and what you believe potential romantic partners think of you. This list will make it obvious what your beliefs and blocks are.
A New Mindset
Now that you have an understanding of your blocks, it's time to begin changing your mindset so that these blocks can be removed. Your mind is a very powerful tool, and when you begin focusing on the positives instead of the negatives, your brain will keep looking for the good instead of picking out the bad. That is when life begins to change for you, but it can take a bit of time, so don't rush yourself!
Remember, your mind is powerful, and the information you feed it will be reflected to you by your outer world. Change your mindset and you can change your life.
But how do we change our mindset?
Affirmations, journaling, visualisations, sleep tapes, revising past situations, consciously making an effort to think new and positive thoughts, and making a habit out of doing all of this. There are many different ways to keep yourself in a good mindset. Maybe only one or two things will work for you, just try them all and pick a “technique” you feel helps. And because your imagination is a powerful tool, then living in the end in your mind can be a great way to do it. It can feel like it takes a lot of effort to change your mindset, but if you persist and turn this into a habit, you will see yourself and your love life transform.
A Good Self-Concept Goes A Long Way
When you make an effort to work on your self-concept and start seeing yourself as the version you want to be, people will be drawn to you and start seeing you differently, and they will even begin to react differently towards you too. If you have a belief that you are a fucking queen/king, then you wouldn't feel unworthy of anything you desire. So act like royalty in your imagination - meaning, you don’t have to go around acting like you are better than everyone else but thinking things like “people love treating me like I’m a super-star”. Tell yourself whatever makes you feel powerful and good about yourself, and subconsciously you will act differently, which is what will make people view you differently.
When you believe and know you’re worthy, other people will think the same way.
An Ideal Relationship
Everyone has a different idea of what makes a relationship perfect, so get clear on what you desire in a relationship. It could help to create a list of the qualities you want in a partner, even if you have someone in mind, write down what you wish they were like (unless you think they’re already great) and imagine them being the version you desire.
Once you have a clear idea of what you want, and what your person will be like in your ideal relationship, you can start imagining it being real, and live in the end in your mind - remember, nothing needs to be done in the 3D, it’s all about your imagination and mindset.
Don’t overcomplicate this. Just imagine the two of you planning a date, sitting down and watching a movie, cooking together, sleeping next to one another. If you want to affirm or journal about this instead, then go for it - whatever works best for you to keep you in that state of already having your desire.
