What Does He Want To Say To Me Tarot

Forget about what he wants to say, what do YOU assume he’s going to say?

Seeking Love Clarity 

When it comes to love it can often feel like you’re lost in a maze, just aimlessly wandering around and thinking, what does he want me to know, or what is he thinking? Or whether he wants more from you. Thankfully, with the help of the tarot cards, you can find clarity in your love life. But let me tell you, tarot is so much more than that, tarot cards can help you to get a glimpse of your inner world which in turn can help transform your love life. And honestly, who hasn’t turned to tarot when seeking clarity about a current love situation? “What does he want to say to me?” is one of those burning questions that tarot readers get asked often. I have a reading listed with the original price (plus a printable Oracle deck) specifically on this topic as it is quite popular. And while many of you seem to believe that this sort of reading is all about peeping into your love interest’s mind to figure out what they’re truly feeling — it actually turns out it goes a lot deeper than that. Everyone around us is reflecting us — especially those we share connections with — but what does that mean exactly? What we assume and believe about others is how they show up in our reality. So, does he think your attractive? if you assume he thinks this way then he’s going to think you’re attractive. But doubts can fuck that up and get in the way. It is almost like we have a telepathic connection that can speak with the people around us, especially those we want or feel strongly about — even if it is in a good or bad way. So when you assume they’re thinking about you, guess what — they’re thinking about you — it might not be an intense and strong thought, but you will cross their mind. This isn’t to say that the person doesn’t have their own message to give you — but usually, the messages coming through are what they’re getting from you telepathically. So whether you’re just starting to date someone new or you’ve been with your partner for years, when you think of them- try to make sure those thoughts are positive and you will be able to shift the energy around the connection and receive positive messages from your person through tarot readings. 

Using tarot cards with a new mindset for your love question 

This is not fortune telling or a psychic reading and defiantly not a horoscope, but if you are looking to ask a question or two to your tarot cards. You want to suss out if ‘he wants more from you’ or if it’s just a fling and what you should do. I get it, men are complicated, actually scratch that , people are fucking complicated. So no judgment here for wanting to get a reading about situation and how you feel. But first and foremost, you have to make sure your mindset is in a good place. Remember — even tarot reflects back to you your inner thoughts, assumptions and beliefs — not just the people around you. So if you go into the reading with this intense fear that it’s going to be shitty or negative — then you’re probably going to have that come up in the cards- especially if there is a deep belief that is causing this fear. Your mindset truly does shape the way the reading will go, so it is important to note that if you get a reading and the message isn’t what you want to hear — it isn’t set in stone, shift your mindset, work through your dominant thoughts and you will influence the outcome of both the reading and the situation. Remember, your tarot cards are a tool for information and insight, a tarot card is not the gospel truth of your fate. So, don’t get too hung up if you get a reading online and pull the Tower or Death card in a tarot reading about a message of love . Scary as they might look, these tarot cards can represent transformation and change, which isn’t always a bad thing — it can be difficult and uncomfortable, but it isn’t something to dread. Finding love and understanding your relationships can be confusing as hell, but going inward and doing the work can bring a world of enlightenment. And you can use the cards to help with that! 

Your mindset and clarity are what matters in all tarot questions

So, while most online tarot readers may be focused on the other person’s message to you — here at Bitchy Tarot, your mindset is what matters most to me, and customers that understand this are my favorites. Tarot cards can definitely spill the tea like nothing else, but it’s better to use them to decipher all those encrypted messages from your subconscious mind instead. With Bitchy Tarot readings, you not only get personalized messages for your specific person but also some meaningful insight into your self-concept and what may need to change in order to shift your connections. And if you know me, you know I love tarot and to talk about the mindset and self-concept. So if you’re interested in getting a tarot reading from me about your man or person and what messages they may have for you — just be aware I love prodding and prying into your mindset more than your relationship. And if you’re interested in having your own Oracle deck to decipher messages from your person then feel free to check out my printable Oracle deck! Remember, a healthy mindset is like striking gold and it can attract and manifest healthy and happy relationships where you don’t have to question what they want you to know, believe me — it’s all about stepping into your queen/king energy and reminding yourself you truly are that girl/guy. You are only human though, so you’re allowed to have off days or even weeks! Don’t worry about it, as long as you stay on top of your mindset and dominant thinking — you and your future self have got this! 

Here at Bitchy Tarot, our tarot online resources are here to guide you, offering insights and wisdom to help you manifest your desires. Be sure to review our policy information for a seamless experience. And don’t forget, we also offer a free reading for yes no tarot free on our home page to assist you on your path. Keep an eye out for our occasional sale price on any tarot reading, making it easier than ever to access the tools and knowledge you need to manifest your dreams.

Look out for my next blog post - I will be talking all about the month ahead tarot readings. In my own tarot & manifesting journey, the August reading I did for myself played a pivotal role in shaping my path with tarot. I hope it can do the same for you!

For an in depth personal reading on the topic please see the following link: Message From Your Person